all along ive never commented that this guy sucks lar, u should leave him. or this guy is jus making use of him blah blah. i dun comment bcos r/s is between 2 person. wad i will sae is jus ask my fren to look at the big picture. is this wad u wan? wad is ur future. wad is ur plan. this carry on, can u accept? can u do all this and that? tat is wad i alwaes do. bcos when im wif hubby, everibodi is telling me, hey he's not right for u. leave him. he's jus cheatin u of ur money, why stay wif him. he's bastard, break off wif him. i go thru all this for more den 2yrs and hence i know hw it feels when ur fren come and tell u, break off lar. but r/s is between 2 person, not for u outsiders to tell us wad to do, jus bcos u feel this and that. u dun haf feelins to that person like us. u onli sae, okie lor, u wan sae u love him so u dun wan leave him, den so b it lor. or sae that im being stupid, not tinkin wif my head blah blah.

so frens who know me well enuff will know, when dey tell me abt their r/s problem and asked hw, wad should dey do. i will tell them the big big picture. and i will point out to them, if dey choose this path it will b like that, if dey choose that path, it will b like that. which 1 can dey accept. i never sae, yeah u should break off bcos he's fcuker lar. or u shouldnt, bcos he treat u so gd and such. but im fcuking pissed todae when this fcuker commented that hubby is jus cheating me. like fcuk. who are u to sae that? okies, he did not tell me directly. he told my fren. and my fren tell me that. let's see the whole ting.

hubby is lazy. he hates to work. make unrealistic plans like wantin to b a boss etc but he didnt even wan to work to earn the money, hw to b boss? hubby will ask me for money when he doesn haf. tell me tat he wan this and that. let me spend money on him, wherelse he hardly spend money on me bcos he doesn haf the money to spend on me. he fcuk around, he come back confessed (thou few months later) and accept all the nonesense that i throw to him after knowing that he once fcuk around. tolerate my nonesense when he know he's at fault. of cuz, there are times when he's a bastard. like after the last time he hit me and made me suffer hearing prob, he still call qi to complain for 1 whole hr saeing that im wrong blah blah. BUT he was actualli waitin for me at my void deck during tat 1hr.

ive never regret spending those money on him, thou sometimes veri xinku. like he got into bike accident, i haf to borrow to pae the other party. at least i can see where i spend the money. i know where the money goes to and not into the thin air. he learn his mistake and repent. i still remb few months into the r/s, i was in korea leading tour. and he actualli plae online casino, lost $2k! and im all the wae in korea, wad can i help him? scold him? angry? he learnt his lesson and never gamble ever again after the debt is being pae off. even if ppl sae he xiao bai lian. take money from me. i still smile and sae nothin to them. even if dey nag, i still sae nth. but wadever i sae, dey will take it as im jus finding excuses. but did they go thru wad i went thru wif hubby? nope. dey onli hear my ranting. dey dun understand hw much we went thru tog.

for that fcuker who commented that hubby is cheatin on me is even worst den hubby. he's a gambler. who doesn haf money but kept gambling. and den lost liaos? ask gf pae lor. he thought that bcos he sae it's a LOAN, den it makes a difference. but fcuking hell no. he made my fren go around to borrow money from other people and she doesn even dare to let ppl know she is borrowing bcos she wan to help her bf pae off the debt. each time my fren tried to break off wif him, he will gif all sort of stunt, pattern all come out. den make my fren go back, promising that he wun gamble again. and den he will gamble behind her back. when lose money, no money to pae. den he will start a drama. saeing he wan to break off wif her bcos he break the promise and gamble blah blah. and make my fren go look for him, drama started and ended up wif my fren tryin to find money to pae his debt again. and nw he's saeing hubby is trying to cheat me? who is cheatin who? at least hubby wun tell me, i got into an accident, u can help me find money? i will return u. but he did. and did he return? mayb 10yrs later bahs.

super pissed off. i never ever wanted to comment on other people lor. alwaes keeping to myself. but nw he's making me pissed. if i ever see him face to face. i will b super sarcastic!