I have decide to create a new blog with my old URL for the time being till everything is over.

i have engaged a lawyer to help me get sole custody, care & control and denied visitation rights of Darius from my ex. therefore i had private my blog previously in order for him(or his friends) to gain access to my blog and find out stuff about Darius. afterall, you do not know if they will kidnap him or something as they wanted a large sum of money which we do not agree to give. now we are in the midst of everything, where the court clerk are trying their luck to be able to serve the writs to him as he is being uncooperative.

however i find that it is very stupid to be affected by such jerk and stop blogging. hence, i have decide to start a brand new blog for the time being and when everything is over i will merge back both blogs.

with our wedding dinner coming up. i am seriously drown with lotsa stuff. work, darius's 3rd birthday celebration, invites listing, sitting arrangement, bridal appt etc etc. i hope that i will be able to cope with everything. but of cuz, i also know that i always have hubby with me to rely on. as long as i ask, he will do it. i know i always complain about him being relax and not doing anything. but the fact is, i always like to carry everything upon myself. end up when i cant take it i will scold him =x sorry la hubby.

hubby's birthday was on last saturday and i had a surprise for him. i text his friends to meet up together for a bbq on his birthday without him knowing anything. even lying to him that we are going to Vivo for dinner etc. some pix to share and then im off back to work!